End Well to Begin Better
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At the end of a talk I gave in India about readiness, a brilliant audience member asked me a striking question: “What do you think most of us are actually not ready for?”
I paused to think. My answer? Most of us don’t know how to handle endings. We struggle to let go.
Ending is inevitable, but true closure is a choice. Too often, instead of neatly wrapping up what is fading, we distract ourselves by chasing the novelty of a fresh start. But unresolved endings linger. They carry forward, subtly shaping—and sometimes hindering—our future endeavours.
The universe echoed this thought a week later. At a wedding, of all places, I was seated next to a woman who runs a palliative care foundation. She dedicates her life to helping people approach the final threshold with grace.
It was a beautiful coincidence. Speaking with her made me realise that ending well is vital to creating space for new beginnings. If we don’t close doors gracefully, the lingering wounds limit what we can create moving forward.
Projects, journeys, careers, companies, relationships, lives—all things end. How we choose to honour those endings dictates how we begin again.