Change is an act of love.
Change can not emerge from anger, fear or resentment.
If you hate or displease someone or something, you better walk away. Your every attempt at change will carry your emotions. And once who or what you want to change will feel your blame and judgment, they will close up and resist.
But they may open up to love.
So, inquire about your intentions. Is your desire to change someone or something coming from love and compassion, or is it coming from anger, fear or resentment? Are you seeking change for your own benefit or theirs?
That is particularly important if you want to change a system you are part of. If you wish to change your relationship, organization or community, the first step is to check within yourself if you are coming from a place of love. Then you'll be able to see that what you want to change in the system is an invitation for you to become that change.
The change will become an act of love.
Thank you